I haven't read the whole thread and don't know exactly what the issue is. My response in post #34 was merely to highlight that a Christian can prevent their prayers from being answered. I will not presume to make applications to another forum member.
It is important to remember that Jesus remarked we'd have trouble in this world and I take that to mean some troubles cannot be removed by prayer. Our hardships help us see ourselves, shape our character and provide room for ministry.